Saying Yes to God when sparkly, safe faith is no longer enough
by Kristen Welch
Genre: Nonfiction, Christian living
Summary: Kristen Welch, a native Texan and blogger at We Are THAT Family, agreed to take a trip to Kenya with Compassion International to highlight the work the organization is doing there. It was on that trip, sitting in the slums, surrounded by raw sewage, starving children and families that Kristen’s heart shattered. She asked God why He would allow this to happen to his people and God responded with the same question to her, “Why would you allow this, Kristen?” In that moment she decided she must do something but had no idea what that would look like.
This book is Kristen’s story of how she, along with her family (as well as many Kenyan natives) started Mercy House, a place for pregnant girls to live, learn a trade, finish school and have a fighting chance at not only surviving but thriving in their community. It is Kristen’s story of her struggle with learning business, starting a non-profit here and overseas, and battling her own feelings of insufficiency and lack of training.
Sharing her fears, dreams, stumbling blocks and frustrations along the way, Kristen challenged her readers to remember that many women tell her they could never do what she does because they are “just a mom”. She used this book to show that she feels exactly the same way, it was completely God who led her and He is the One making all of the success happen. Kristen often encouraged readers to continue to dream big because when we come to the point that we know we can’t, that is the place that God can and then He will get all the glory.
Finally, I loved the story of Kristen sharing how she is living a true deep relationship with Christ now. She credits it to what she calls “living scared.” It has allowed her family to trust Christ more, take more risks, live more generously, have better perspective and therefore get to see more miracles. “Whenever I’m down in the dumps and whining about the obstacles, I’m almost always reminded that if it were easy, I wouldn’t need God. This work wouldn’t be miraculous and dependent on God if I had all the answers. If I made it happen nice and neatly, I would get the glory, not Him.”
Kristen’s challenges were thought-provoking and inspiring for me. In times when women (her intended audience) are feeling like what they do everyday (doing dishes, folding laundry) isn’t enough, she reaffirms their ministry of serving their family. “Since the family is God’s means of telling His story, our goal is to build a strong family.” And when we are feeling afraid of dreaming because of the hurdles that make it impossible, she encourages to dream even bigger. For God’s glory alone.
“Why are God-sized dreams so compelling? Because we powerfully experience God’s presence in our lives through them. It’s not about destination. It’s not what we will get if we complete the dream. It’s about a relationship…The pursuit of any God-sized dream is ultimately about the pursuit of the One who placed it within you. It’s like a homing beacon for your heart.” –Holley Gerth
Have you ever done anything out of obedience or love of God that terrified you? When did you feel the most dependent on God? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below.
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